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Keeping things Steamy

November 13, 2007 | By Kristen | In Chaos of Life 

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We all know that keeping things steamy with your spouse can be harder then it should be when you factor in pure exhaustion, un-relenting schedules, kids in and out of your bed all hours of the night.

However, I have not met a women yet that doesn’t think it’s important to remember to have fun adult time to re-connect and remember how important you are to one another.  During a playground conversation this week women started to share their very personal thoughts on how they “get in the mood”.

It’s not rocket science, but we all know that sometimes… well… after having kids hanging and pawing at you all day… sometimes the last thing you want is one more person touching you. So it helps if you psch yourself up.

Five real life moves you can do today for big results

  • Think about it.. while making lunch or the bed…. think about enjoying one on one time
  • Take a shower and shave your legs.. I know easier said then done but I’m not meaning a quick in and out before the kids start killing eachother. Wait until after they are in bed and take a nice shower to perk up or a soothing tub and enjoy your own time before trying to share your time again.
  • Dress for the day. Make an effort to not wear yoga wear all day long and actually get dressed like you won’t be covered in yogurt, dirt and spit up by 5 p.m.
  • Be aware of your underware. This is one that rung true with most women in our impromptu playground research. If you dress in sexy under garmets and feel good about yourself you carry that sexiness all day and can’t wait to share. Some women even like to call and tell their husbands what they are wearing so he has something to look forward to.   So take those old maternity panties and chuck them today- yes one mom confessed to still wearing them 9 months post-baby because they were so comfortable….she promised us all to make them disappear for her husbands sake. One of my favorite sites is Graffiti Pink check out their fun and daring store
  • Send a sexy note. Use your discretion you don’t want him to get busted at work, but a nice playful note goes a long way to bring some flirting back.

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Bonus: Be confident and flaunt your mommy body. Many women worry about their husbands views of their post-baby body, a little love roll here… a stretch mark there… but if you ask the men? They don’t even see that, they see a wife they love and all she is.  The more confident you are, the sexier they find you. So go ahead and flaunt it, he’ll thank you in many ways!

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One Response to “Keeping things Steamy”

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